From
the Back Cover: Feng Shui and the Tango
is the 'Cappuccino' of the environmental healing arts. It's a tasty
mix of the best techniques for successfully designing your way to the
life style you choose to create. Tango is built upon ancient Asian and
European design knowledge and then it's supercharged with healthy amounts
of modern ergonomics and energetic physiology. This 'East meets West'
approach is like having green tea with your apple pie, or chocolate
dipped fortune cookies and it possesses that particular western genius
for practical synthesis and innovation. The result is easy to understand
from a modern western perspective and as importantly, simple to implement.
It
provides powerful solutions that can lead to remarkable results and
still work with whatever design styles make you feel comfortable. Do
you want more fun and romance in your life? How about greater commitment
in your relationships? These are two easy programs that you have the
power to design for yourself. Is greater professional acclaim and increased
cash flow your goal? You've programmed your environment for where you
are now. Feng Shui and the Tango will show you how to program your surroundings
for where you want to go.
Some
Reviews of Feng Shui and the Tango, followed by a sample chapter.
"This
book is a delight and goes far beyond most contemporary books on Feng
Shui in that it addresses the underlying, essential concepts and their
expressions in realistic ways. They align terrestrial mechanics of points,
curves and geometries with the cosmos in an insightful and amusing way.
I recommend it for anyone, beginner's mind or expert." A.T. Mann Author
of "Sacred Architecture"
"-one
of the best Bagua sections I have ever seen. I have learned many new
and interesting Feng Shui tidbits. It is a good addition to your library."
Louise L. Hay Author of "You Can Heal Your Life"
"A
rich, informative and authoritative tapestry. A delightfully romantic
key to the eastern puzzle. Each chapter informs, each chapter delights.
It's upbeat tempo and intimate glances make this a swinging 'must-read'
for Feng Shui-aholics and the curious." Dennis Fairchild Author of "Healing
Homes"
Chapter
One
The
Secret Language of Rooms
Your
Intimate Lair
We’ve
always begun our seminars with the ringing of timbale chimes. Their
song reminds us that while the chimes are solid, they sing and make
themselves felt in a vibrational world. In the same way our physical
bodies are solid, but they sing the universal language of vibration.
As you pass through every doorway, you aura colors and dabs that pathway
with energy like a big paint brush and your best hope is that the person
who preceded you was in a good mood, because you're going to feel their
trace energy. This living box of paints and brushes are the breath of
Feng Shui.
They
draw the designs of our personal programs and divine Geomancy creating
a potent Earth Magic that wraps around us and guides our lives. This
aura surrounding you understands the subtle language with which your
body speaks to your environment, and with which your home, office, bedroom
and garden respond. It is a language found in your genetic codes and
the history is recorded in your blood. It is a five-dimensional dialect
that you, as a little child, understood perfectly .
Your
command of this language is often lost along with your childlike sense
of discovery. It just takes a little practice to wake up those forgotten
codes and stretch the corners of those eyes that once saw the nature
spirits in the trees and heard songs in waterfalls. How do adults get
into this sorry condition? That sounds like Peter Pan asking a grown-up
Wendy, "How could you forget how to fly?" Somewhere along our path to
a modern world, people lost track of a few essential magical truths.
First, we are human, we are animal, but we are also magical, and full
of both brilliance and basic needs.
We
thrive on daily allotments of certain things such as light, color, fresh
air, and clean water. We need environments where we can relax and be
able to get away daily from that constant tension that we, as members
of a modern society, wear as a badge of honor. Every day we need to
feed our emotions as well as our bodies. Sometimes it’s best to empower
the feelings of your body and ignore the thoughts in your head.
Remember
walking into places that just “felt right?” Remember other times where
your nose told you to “turn around and leave” and you did! You were
practicing Feng Shui right there and you didn’t even know it. Have you
ever almost endlessly rearranged your furniture, only stopping when
it felt good? Why didn’t the first dozen arrangements satisfy you? They
didn’t feel good. This one felt better! That’s exactly the point. We
do the most important things by feeling, just like every other creature
in this garden. Here’s a hint: Our bodies are much more in touch with
our feelings than our minds.
Trust
your body: it rarely lies. Consider the denizens of your intimate lair.
If your cat is napping on your bed, probably on your expensive silk
pajamas, you can pretty much bet that kitty’s head is facing the doorway.
Why? Because she can’t relax unless she knows that the second she hears
a footfall, she has only to slit one lazy eye to check out the intruder.
If it’s someone suspicious, maybe of the canine persuasion, she’s ready
to dart out of there! If it’s her pet human, that’s another matter entirely.
But it’s only when Miss Kitty can comfortably command the entrance way
that she can feel secure enough to close those baby blues and catch
40 winks.
Which
brings us to the first principle: Command the Door Do you think that
we are really any different from that cuddly feline? You never really
feel comfortable with your back to the door. Whenever we walk into a
room, we lay down that pathway of energy, painting it with the colors
from our personal field. Remember, we have to live with those colors
we create. After a time the people walking through a house carve an
energetic stream that affects everyone and everything there. Your body
won’t relax with your back facing the doorway because your nervous system
can feel that energy stream rushing in behind you.
The
spine is your body’s primary electrical pathway. It reads this disruptive
energy of the entrance and feels vulnerable to any saber-toothed tigers
that may be lurking outside. It doesn’t matter to your body that you
consciously know that the alarm is on, the dogs are watching, and for
all intents and purposes, you are safe. Your animal body doesn’t care
about the silly musings of your conscious mind. It knows what it feels.
If your body can’t command the entrance to your “intimate lair” and
feel able to respond quickly to any threat that appears there, you stay
tense on a subtle but profound level. Remember: your mind will lie to
you about survival issues, but your body won’t.
Believing
your head and ignoring your body can be a major cause of chaos in your
life! After all, Feng Shui is like a magical dance. When you go spinning
across the floor, it's not about what you're thinking. It's about what
you're feeling! You go dancing with your body and soul. It's like falling
in love, when you're traveling between desire and surrender. It wraps
you up in beauty and carries you along. When your Feng Shui design is
wonderful, your life glows. Logic and reason aren't even on the dance
floor with you. They're barely in the same room.
We're
not saying to ignore your brain when you're creating your design. What
we're saying is, the success of a good energy design is felt in your
belly and your heart. In the Asian tradition, it’s said that the three
most important places in a house are the front door, the stove, and
the bed. The front door is your face upon the world. The stove is your
place of nurturing. The bed is important because it’s where you restore
yourself. To those three we would add the desk, probably because we
spend so much time sitting at ours. The desk relates to how you communicate,
how you do business, and how you think about the world. What we’ve been
talking about in this chapter is the relationship between the door and
these very important parts of your life. If the door to your house or
to your room represents your responsibilities to the outside world,
the way in which you physically relate to that door will pattern how
you relate to those responsibilities.
Where
are the most important places this dynamic will affect you? Your kitchen!
What kind of tension is being served with your favorite meals when the
stove position doesn’t allow the cook to command the door? Many families
don’t cook because of a badly placed stove. This fragments the close,
personal relationship. Food tastes better when it’s infused with comfort
and love. Your Desk! How can you concentrate on doing your best work
if you’re tense because you’re sitting with your back to a door or walkway?
How can you command your future if you can’t command the door? Your
Bedroom! How can you get a good night’s sleep if your body is on alert
because your bed position doesn’t let you command the door? (Note: Later
we discuss placing the bed in relation to the compass directions.
This
is important, so read the section on directions before you start moving
the heavy furniture.) You dramatically improve your attitude and ability
to handle stress when you take a commanding position! What if you can’t
move your desk, or your bed is nailed to the floor? That’s what mirrors
are for. Your body is smart and knows how to use a rear-view mirror.
Who says they’re only for cars? They work great on desks, stoves, and
in all types of places.
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2005 Cuore Libre Multi Media Publishing.